It's been awhile. There are times during the week when I think, "I need to write about that," and I don't. I must say that I do miss having this outlet to write. I had intentions of taking a break from this blog to allow time to write more, document more, reflect, etc. However, I haven't been as disciplined as I'd like. I am quite sure that once I find an external hard drive over Christmas, I will start back on here. Not as often as before, but at least weekly.
I have some great photos from my last holiday. I met up with Pellow in Venice and I ran in the marathon and it was amazing. I plan to sign up for another marathon in the Spring with my cousin, God-willing she's able to fly over. I think that might be the best vacation - in Europe with Cousin Kel. She brings out my craziness and my giggly side. And me with her.
Italy was breathtaking, Austria was just as amazing, only in a majestic way. I love the mountains. There is something that happens in my heart when I am there. The air, the view, the sounds. I love the mountains. It will always be a trip that I will remember for getting to know a good friend. Pellow rocks. I was able to clear enough space to make room for the photos from the trip.
Painter's Point - Konigsee (Germany)




Vienna Opera house. Yes, where Mozart composed. Pellow and I saw the most beautiful ballet here.

I'm immature, this I know. But who can't laugh at this?

I love you Salzburg!

A rooftop cafe overlooking Salzburg, Austria

La la la la la....

The Sound of Music house (from the back; they used a different house for the front)

The Sound of Music gazebo

Last weekend I took a train to Geneva to see Jasmin. The family she works for was in Israel, so she and I had the house to ourselves. I didn't do much research on the city and I wish I had. If I did, I would have known that it's where John Calvin joined the Reformation and changed the world. I could write five blogs on how cool all of that was, but I'll spare you because I know my excitement isn't always transferable. I did go to the International Museum of the Reformation. I didn't go through as painstakingly as I wanted, but I plan to do more studying and research and take another weekend trip in the Spring to do it all over again.
And actually, two days ago Pellow wrote to ask what I had planned for the weekend because she was thinking of taking the train into Paris on Saturday night, then leaving Sunday night for Barcelona. I love that spontaneity. I can't wait to see her again!
I've got a countdown to when I will be going home. My homesickness has been lingering for a while, so it's nice to see that time has been kind. I've got less than a month to go and one suitcase has been packed for a few weeks now. And my apartment looks no different. That says that I have accumulated way too much 'stuff'.
Once again I've hit an anti-social phase. This isn't new to me. I will blame it on a plethora of good books at my disposal and the fact that 80% of my closest friends have moved away, not to mention the weather. Each day seems colder than the last and it just seems easier to curl up on my bed and read under the light of my little lamp and glow of the little IKEA tea candles that I can't get enough of. During those times there is nothing more I'd rather be doing, except maybe drinking margaritas at Chuy's.
The family is doing well. Just last night my boss asked how my French was coming along. All I said was that I've lost motivation. She said "Would you like for Basile and I to start speaking to you in French?" I gulped, swallowed, and said "Yes." I shocked myself by that response. She then said, "Ben, nous commencons maintenant!" And now I am nervous.
The kids are the same. Barth is still getting into trouble, not cleaning his room, not making his bed, and coming home late. But he also still, at odd times, yells, "Connie...I love you!" and it always makes me smile, no matter how furious I am with him.
However, I am not sure if I've shared the new little discipline system that I came up with. I know how much these kids love their bank accounts. It's a great system they have. Their father keeps the books. He's a banker and he is their banker, as well. I thought, "Hmmm, what would motivate them to stay in line and do what they are told?" And that's when I came up with the spreadsheet now known as Au Revoir Mon Argent, Goodbye My Money. Isabelle and Basile LOVED it! Now here's how it works. There are five columns for ways to mess up and there are euro figures attached to each. Each time they get a mark, it's two euros, except profanity is five euros. The columns are Bed Made, Desk Clean, Tardiness, Profanity, and Other. The Other category is basically for Zac because he does all sorts of wrong things, like blatant disobedience, putting towels in the shower with him, hanging out with and distracting the tutor
while he's working with the other boys, and that list can go on. All that to say that Barth's row is full of marks. Zac is behind him. Balthazar is close to perfect.
All of Zac's pants are too small. They are all at his ankles. He doesn't see that they are too small but it kills me. He just got new ones in the summer. I'm shocked how much he's grown, but I just don't see it. Verena has grown too. She's not too far off from being my height. We've definitely bonded over the last few months and I love it. Never do we argue anymore. Balthazar is busy studying. He has actually moved downstairs into his own flat. There is some massive construction going on in the house. Zac and Verena have moved out of their rooms and are now living together in Balthazar's room. The ceilings are being lifted since the top floors have the exaggerated vaulted ceilings. All the windows in the roof are being changed out, and also will be electric. Then the entire flat will be painted. It all will be finished by next Fall. It's crazy. It's good that Balthazar has his own place. Studies have been brutal as he's preparing for university. He's applied at three universities in London and also at Science Po in Paris. It will be a weird year for Verena and Zac after the summer. Balthazar and I will both be gone.
I guess that is all the catch up that I needed to do.